Questions you might want to ask

� If you could plan it today, what would the last day or week of your life look like?

� Who would be there? Where would you like to be?

� What are your ideas and hopes about the end of your life?

� What are your fears or concerns about the process of dying?

� Have you thought about the care you want during a severe illness or as you are dying?

� Where would you prefer to spend your last days if you are ill? At home, with one

of us, in a hospice, or in the hospital?

� Who do you want to make medical decisions for you if you are unable to speak

for yourself?

� Do you believe that life should always be preserved as long as possible? If not,

what kinds of mental or physical conditions would make you think that life-

prolonging treatment should no longer be used? For example, if you were:

.� Unaware of your surroundings

.� Unable to appreciate or continue important relationships

.� Unable to think well enough to make everyday decisions

.� In severe pain or discomfort

� Is there any particular music, flowers, photographs or art you would like to have

around you at the end?

� What are your wishes regarding a funeral? Burial vs. cremation?

����������� Reference :� California Coalition for Compassionate Care. www.finalchoices.org